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Tom's Family Restaurant to Close After 65 Years

The news of the iconic Homewood diner's closure comes as bittersweet to a community that has supported it for over half of a century.

“All great stories must have an end, so here it is.”

owner Tom Kataras put it bluntly. He’s been working there since he was 9 years old, and after 65 years of the restaurant's operation, he’s ready to take a break.

Old age, bad knees and a loss of passion are the reasons he says he decided to retire and close up shop. 

It’s hard to argue. Kataras works six to seven days a week and has been doing so for decades.

“When you own a business, you don’t really own the business, the business owns you,” Kataras said. “If I was 100 percent Greek, I’d die behind the register, but I’m only part Greek so I’m getting the hell out of here.”

But don’t be fooled into thinking Kataras is completely jaded.

“It’s not like we’re giving up on the community, because we’re not,” Kataras said. “I’m still living in Homewood, I’m still going to be on the village board. It’s just that you need someone who’s young and passionate about a business to run it and I’m not that way anymore.”

It’s hard to see, though. He veils it well. Several times during the interview, he had to jump up and into action. Two chocolate shakes first. An oatmeal order next. Phone calls. Register. More phone calls.

“Tom’s Family Restaurant in beautiful downtown Homewood,” he enthusiastically answers with a smile on his face. “Just another day in paradise,” is how he responded to an inquisitive patron at the register.

Lack of passion? Maybe not entirely. But Kataras deserves a break 10 times over, and that’s what it really comes down to.

“It’s not like we’re hemorrhaging money,” Kataras said. “We’re doing OK, we’re paying our bills … but we’re not growing and the restaurant is at a point where it needs to be redecorated and it’s worn and I don’t want to do it myself.”

But the decision comes with some trepidation. Kataras says he’s mostly concerned about his mother. He or another one of his family members shuttles her back and fourth from Crete to work at the restaurant on a nearly daily basis.

“She’s got her old lady friends (here),” Kataras said. “This is such a big part of mom’s life.”

Still, Kataras remains firm in his decision.

“It’s just time to move on,” he continued. “In the end, it was my choice.”

Tom’s Family Restaurant’s Origin and the Former Homewood Sweet Shop

Kataras said his father and grandfather moved to Homewood from West Pullman in 1947. That’s when they opened up the first iteration of Tom’s Family Restaurant at the corner of Ridge and Dixie, now Global Fusions Home Décor. Then, it was called the Homewood Sweet Shop, and it stayed that way until 1967.

“In '67, my dad moved over here,” Kataras said. “This used to be a big parking lot … my dad bought the parking lot and built (this restaurant).”

Along with the move came a name change, and Tom’s is truly a family restaurant in every sense of the word. According to Kataras, one of his family members is at the restaurant every day of the week excluding a three-hour Tuesday night shift.

“It takes a lot of effort to run a place; it’s not like a normal retail business,” Kataras said. “It can be all-consuming, but if you want to do it right, you have to be here.”

It’s old standbys like the aforementioned that have benefitted the restaurant all these years.

“The thing that’s going to keep a business is customer service,” Kataras said. “We didn’t last 65 years because (of our food)—our food is good—but it wasn’t just our good food, it was that we cared about the community."

A Community Within a Community

“Tom's Restaurant is an iconic part of Homewood,” Homewood Trustee Anne Colton said. “I still can't believe that it's going to close.”

Colton’s disillusion is certainly not unique, but the patron community the restaurant has fostered over the years is. The Tom’s customers are some of the most loyal you can find.

Take Homewood resident John Detrich, for instance. He has been going to Tom’s since the late '70s. He currently visits the restaurant two to three times a week. His standby item is the breakfast No. 4, scrambled with cheese.

“I’ll miss it,” Detrich said. “For me, I feel bad, but for them, I feel good.”

Homewood Trustee Jay Heiferman shared a similar account.

“My brother Gary has eaten lunch at the same counter spot daily for the last 30-plus years,” Heiferman said. “I feel bad for he and all of the other 'dailys.’ Tom's will be sorely missed.”

According to Kataras, some of Tom’s customers eat at the restaurant three times a day.

“A lady just told me a couple days ago, back in the old days—now this goes to my dad—her kid was sick and the doctor prescribed some Coke syrup … she came in and my dad used to give her Coke syrup every time her child got sick,” Kataras said. “This probably happened … 40 years ago. This woman remembers it and she’s still coming in because of that.”

Even the staff is unusually loyal. Waitress Robin Builta has been working at Tom’s for over 10 years.

“First day he told me (of the closing) I went home and cried,” she said. “I’m sure I will again on closing day.”

Daytime manager and cook Norma Lively has been working at Tom’s for 57 years.

“My dad bought her her first pair of shoes,” Kataras said. “She was 17 years old when she started working for us.”

There’s a magnetic sort of comfort at the weathered old diner, as evident in a recollection of Trustee Colton.

“My most vivid memory of his restaurant, one that I will carry with me always, is on September 11, shortly after the Trade Towers fell—that's where my husband and I went,” Colton said. “We wanted to be somewhere near friends, in a safe and comfortable community place, where we could hold on to something familiar on a day where everything else had been turned upside down.”

Kataras says his restaurant is the family version of the “Cheers” bar. That’s one of the reasons it’s so hard to let go.

“A lot of people are saying they’re really sad because, where are they going to go now?” Kataras said. “I don’t know what to tell them, but a lot of people say, ‘you worked your butt off, you deserve it, God bless you and have a nice long retirement.' I think people understand.”

What Lies Ahead?

Kataras is eagerly awaiting retirement, specifically so he can follow his passion: boating. He excitedly showed off a photo of his 43-foot Ocean Alexander yacht. He's looking forward to going on an extended cruise.

As for the restaurant, Tom says he’s not particularly concerned with the next place that moves into the location except for one contingency.

“Not another beautician!” he joked. “Not really—I just want it to be successful.”

No matter what goes in, it will be hard to fill the shoes of such a prominent piece of the community for so many years. Kataras maintains an attitude that you seldom find in the food service industry these days.

“You gotta love what you’re doing and love the people that you’re taking care of," Kataras said. "Most of the customers we’ve done a pretty good job with. We’ve disappointed a few, I’m sure, but you give it your best shot.”

There’s no doubt, for 65 consistent years, the Kataras family absolutely did.

Tom's last day of business will be May 1. The doors will close for the last time at 3 p.m.

Sue Bertram April 20, 2012 at 01:17 PM
I so agree that Tom's will be greatly missed! The H-F Park District, along with it's Senior"s Program members, honored Tom at Tuesday nights meeting with an official proclamation, gifts and well wishes for the future. Tom has been a huge supporter of the HFPD for more than 30 years by, among many other things, providing free meals for the Starry Nights entertainers, Ice Cream for Cream Socials, AND wonderful meals for the Senior Lunch Program. Beginning in the early 1980's, Tom's offered a complete 5 course meal twice a week for only $3! So many have enjoyed lunching together at the Park District, enjoying the great food and awesome deserts! In the 30 plus years of helping the Park District with this program, the price only increased by 75 cents!!! Hat's off to Tom and his family - they will be greatly missed!
Anita April 20, 2012 at 01:48 PM
20 years ago, when we were looking for a house here in Homewood we discovered Tom's. I needed a place where my fidgity kids could eat lunch and take a break from the house hunt. My two little ones were sad we were moving away from their friends and our home in Chicago. After the first dino-burgers, they were sold on Homewood. When we got home that night and my husband asked if we saw any nice houses all the kids could talk about was the ice cream, play-area, and kiddie-menu! My kids are all grown. Now it is the daily soups, yummy dinners, wonderful pies, and YES, the ice cream too that kept us stopping in several times a week for dinner or take-out all these years! When I emailed my son to let him know they were closing, he was sad. He was not quite 2 when we first went there. Every visit home from college, he and I had breakfast at Tom's "for old times." It was always his idea--we would go there even before he went to Aurelio's! He asked me to get one last Meatloaf meal and freeze it for him since he will not be home from school until mid-May! We thank the crew at Tom's for all the really happy times we had there. They will be missed and remembered fondly.
Tony Wilson April 20, 2012 at 03:25 PM
Yeah, Fitzpatrick thats right, Homewood is done. What kind of business will replace it? Hmmm, I wonder if it will be targeted at the minority community? How many more years til the transformation is complete...when Homewood more resmbles Harvey and Markham or the Heights or CC Hills?
Glenn E. Wierzbicki April 20, 2012 at 04:12 PM
Its a sad day...
Ryan Fitzpatrick (Editor) April 20, 2012 at 04:29 PM
When I spoke with Tom during the interview, he was adamant about his hope for a new surge of energy in Homewood. He said it's happened before with people like him and his friends when they were younger and he thinks it is in the process of happening again.
Resident April 20, 2012 at 04:35 PM
I ate there only twice but I agree that this is a very sad happening in Homewood.
GladvilleGirl April 20, 2012 at 05:23 PM
While I'll certainly miss Tom's and their family-style fare, I can only wish Mr. Kataras a wonderful retirement. He deserves it!
GladvilleGirl April 20, 2012 at 05:24 PM
Buy the restaurant, then, if you feel so strongly about it. Put your money where your mouth is!
Resident 4 April 20, 2012 at 05:24 PM
@Tony Wilson, Homewood is far from done! It is nowhere near Harvey or the Heights! They don't keep their towns as clean as this one and by the way, we have Thee best Fire & Police Dept!!
Genvieve LaChappele April 20, 2012 at 08:01 PM
The chocolate milkshakes were the bomb!
Ryan Fitzpatrick (Editor) April 20, 2012 at 09:58 PM
I actually got a quick video of Tom making one. I'll put it up on here.
Karen V. Maurer April 21, 2012 at 01:35 AM
Thanks for the the good family times, Tom, starting with the Sweet Shop, for our children, grandchildren, out-of-town nieces and nephews...a comforting bowl of homemade soup...a deluxe field trip for PSC Kindergarteners...ice cream for ice cream lovers. Yacht??? I heard you had a tugboat! Karen Maurer
JuanRaymon April 21, 2012 at 02:07 AM
Yeah Tony Buy the dang place and stop criticizing other places, if your not happy then leave!
Ann dralle April 21, 2012 at 02:33 AM
Working for Tom was a pure joy. it was mt first job and he treated me very, very well. Tom and his family worked so hard and recognized employees that worked hard for them. when I told him I would be quitting to attend college out of town, he was happy for me and even gave me a bonus as a parting gift. it is rare to find an employer like that. tom's will be missed by many, many people. That being said, congratulations on your retirment!
Frank J. Casella April 21, 2012 at 05:06 PM
Better and cheaper than DQ and Mitchell's.
Jeanette April 22, 2012 at 11:40 AM
A sad time for Homewood; a well-deserved break for the Kataras family! I think it's rare in these times (homogenizing of America) that a family-owned; family style restaurant has lasted this long. What a testament to the food, customer service, and business skills of the family. "Tom's" has been a great friend to Homewood. On the day of Snowmageddon (2011? 2010?), Tom's was closed. But as a good neighbor/citizen to Homewood residents, he was out in Tom's truck delivering hot cocoa to those who were shoveling out. Let's only hope we can find another citizen like this for his location. Best of luck to you, Tom!
Anne Brady April 23, 2012 at 06:30 PM
During the blizzard of 1967 I was a sophomore at H-F. I got a ride from a teacher, the last car to leave the school before everyone inside spent the night. The teacher could only get as far as uptown Homewood and asked where I wanted to be let out. I didn't have to think twice, "Tom's Restaurant" I said. I jumped from the car in my loafers, didn't know it was going to snow, and scurried into Tom's. They were of course open, warm, and friendly. Everyone turned and looked as I came through the door and explained where I had come from. I was allowed to use the phone; called my dad and he hiked uptown from Pine Road to bring me home. What a night. Thanks for being there Tom and family. Loved the vanilla cokes with order of fries!!
Kelly Capriotti Burton April 26, 2012 at 03:45 AM
I moved to Homewood at age 22 from S. Chicago Heights. Tom's was always a go-to place for me, my husband, and our kids. We moved to South Carolina last year and I'm coming to visit May 1...around 4pm. Wish I could have one more short stack there :)
Marty Sherlock April 26, 2012 at 02:16 PM
When I was 9 or 10 my best friend Jerry and I had paper routes in Flossmoor. Every saturday we would ride our bikes to Homewood to pick up our check (the newspaper office was next door to Tom's). Then we proceeded to blow our whole check on lunch at Tom's. -- Marty Sherlock
Marcia Sommerfeld April 27, 2012 at 10:09 PM
I worked there my first two years of high school as a waitress. My family went there for 40 years. My father is 86 years old and had gone there EVERY single day for his morning oatmeal for the last 10 years until about two months ago when they were very mean to him and told him he stayed too long and read the paper too long there. He was no longer welcome and started going to Washington Square Restaurant where he has been treated with love and kindness and they look forward to seeing him there every day. My father was always one that would give the shirt off his back for anyone. A very soft spoken man full of kindness and goodness. I was so sad for him to be treated in such a way after the many many years of being a Homewood Sweetshop patron. Too bad since they were closing they couldn't have held out two more months without making my Dad feel so bad.
Gerry Krumwide April 28, 2012 at 08:35 AM
I went to St. Joe's and we were regulars. Tom and his father were running it then too. Toms dad the first "Greek" was blind but he always managed to know what the denomination you handed him was, we always told him, You should save it make it landmark because it really is. As they say, the place sure won't not be the same.

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